In the spirit of the OP, I'm actually interested in responses by anyone who is using/has tried dimmer switches other than the WS12A or WS14A switches, for the same reasons in the OP--mushy feel, imprecise function, etc... I have probably 10 - 12 of these installed. I may or may not be "too rough" with my switches from time to time, and as any forum members in the married sector can attest, I can't control what my wife does. So I'm looking for a more robust replacement to these dimmers...
The Smarthome SwitchLinc #2380W looks good, but I've never tried one--and they seem to be pretty pricey. I like the "brightness LED" as a gimmick and I love the programmable soft-start which means I don't have to handle that function in ActiveHome.
Has anyone tried this, or can recommend any other switches?