after playing around with different programming sequences to make the instructions for everyone simple, have come up with these instructions, i guess they are similar to the ones supplied with remote, not trying to take credit, just had lots of trouble at first and found a way that worked for me, anyway here are the instructions.
you will need new remocon remote, large security remote with delay( if delay is wanted) and small tuning screwdriver supplied with new remote.
the remocon has similar button layout to security keychain, so use same sequence for simplicity. 1-arm (w/delay) 2-disarm 3- sec. light on 4-sec. light off.
open case of remocon, there are 2 jumpers in the remote 1 close to battery leave on for programming, and 1 close to L.E.D. this one should be set closest to the blue tuning cap, and lay on table next to large remote. with you left hand push and hold down the #2 button on remocon remote and repeatedly press and release the disarm button on the security remote. while doing this with your right hand slowly turn the tuning cap with the screwdriver until the green led starts to blink, now release. Now if you press and hold #2 and disarm at same time, led should light and blink 3 times, try a couple times till 3 blinks, now button is programmed. the remaining buttons should program without any tuning of cap. just press and hold #3 and security light on till you get 3 blinks, then #4 then #1 . After all are done remove jumper closest to the battery. Now try all 4 button and make sure everything responds. if so assemble case and you are done.
hope this helps, if doesn't work at first keep trying, the remotes are pretty nice, also if frequencies are the same you could program you car remote, and security remote into 1 remote, eliminating large keychains in pocket.