Thought I might update this.
I ran 14-2 wire to a X10 light switch at each end of the house. I then ran 14-3 wire from the switch to the floodlights. At the lights, black is constant hot, red is switched by the light switch. Connected black to the black into the motion\camera box. Then connected red to the two black wires for the 2 lights, blocked off the blue wire from the motion sensor, and hooked up white as usual.
This way, the motion sensor and camera always have power, and the lights only get power when the light switch is triggered.
Now I can run the camera whenever I want without burning the lights, and without people knowing the camera is on. Also, I can chime inside the house on motion without the lights coming on, so I can decide if I want the lights on, or a suprise attack
There is no doubt there should be the option for having the lights seperately addressable on the camera models.
Also, im having a HECK of a time with the floodcam, there is a spot right at the edge of its vision, that shoots out WAY farther than the rest of the FOV. So I keep getting cars setting it off even as I adjust the range lower and lower. So I eventually just put a little piece of tape over the corner and turned the sensitivity back up, works fine now.
I also have a MSA16? (the grey outdoor motion sensor) that goes off literally, constantly from about 11 AM until 3PM, and frequently other times. Its perfect at night, but useless during the day. I know I could set it not to go off during the day, but I wanted it for that. The sensor is pointing at the house, theres no way there is anything moving in its FOV, and the sun is at its back, but it is literally firing every second or so, I have it turning on a light, and I can sit there pressing the button as fast as I can and I can hardly get it to go off for 1-2 seconds before it fires back on again.