Alright, so I will certainly leave this in case anyone ever has a similar issue. But I fuggin doubt they will.
Just so people can see what I was dealing with & maybe understand the solution ill post some pics here.
This is ground zero. My fathers creation & my 10 year learning process.
Sorry to be a pain but I cant post links. copy paste & remove the space, add an H. Or highlight imgur.com/L_____q and right click, select go to ______ h ttp://imgur.com/Lu74dXq
Here is the issue. Soft start motor control up top. Circuit breaker box below.
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Jandy control box. Not involved, with THIS issue anyway...
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Also just for show and tell. My wiring of the 20a filters to the pump.
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THE FIX. On a whim I decided to disconnect the SOFTRON soft start control box. It was wired inbetween the motor & the breaker. I knew it was no longer necessary because the new variable speed pump starts from 400rpm and ramps up on its own to operating speed. I just didnt remove it from the wiring before because I hate electricity. I also didnt really start following wires until today so I wasnt sure what it was wired to.
When power was returned to the system.. no more buzzing. Breaker did not hum. Power supply or relays (i dont know which were buzzing) in the Jandy box now didnt hum as before.
And the X10 maxi controller worked. With the pump on and off. So relieved
This is also with the 20a filters removed & no phase coupler. I'm going to leave those off.
So, no murder mystery to solve.