... When I came home I unpacked the x10 stuff I had lying around since 2006 or something and was able to switch of a light using AHP on my pc but when I programed the timer for this same light it didn't work.....seriously?!
Your lamp modules are likely the older "non-SoftStart" ones (since you said they were from 2006). Unfortunately, when they changed the module design around 2008, they kept the same model numbers. However, the new ones don't work exactly the same way as the old ones.
What version of AHP did you try using?
Version 3.314 is the latest - you can get is here:
http://www.x10.com/support/support_soft1.htm (The "check for updates" function hasn't worked for several years - download and install the update manually)
Starting with version 3.302, X10 changed the default behavior for "Lamp" modules, to use the Extended Dim commands supported by the newer SoftStart modules.
Try changing the "Type of Module" to "Old Lamps - No SoftStart", and then selecting the specific module you have.
That should get the timers working.