It always bugs me when somebody posts about a problem they are having and many people give them advice, but that the end of the day nobody responds on what the issue may have been. So in the spirit of not being like that
Way back in the beginning I mentioned that I could not figure out why I could not control lights that was on the same circuit as the controller. I also mentioned that the circuit was very short and that there was no noise generating equipment on that circuit and that I knew exactly where the circuit was going and what was on it since I pulled it in December. Any case ... I did order 2 XTB-ANRs and a XTB-IIR from Jeff Voip. But that did not solve the problem... I managed to track down the issue before this arrived at my doorstep.
So the issue goes back to adding an additional circuit to my distribution panel. I have a few of open slots in the panel but I have future plans for those. To add the circuit I used a tandem breaker on another circuit that I knew was pretty short and only had 3 lights and a single outlet on it. While trying to troubleshoot the issue it suddenly struck me that I have never switch the companion breaker off to see what happens. I did not thing I needed to switch it off since the lights were turned off and nothing was plugged into the circuit (or so I thought). After throwing the breaker off though suddenly the light controls worked. I investigated the outlet and found that my wife had unplugged the laser printer from the UPS that is plugged into another outlet with an AF120 filter and had plugged it into this circuit without the filter. She needed to plug in her desk lamp and it would not reach the open outlet but the laser printer did. I moved the laser printer back to where it needed to be and added a short extension cord to the desk lamp and everything was working fine.
I did however plug the XTB-ANRs into outlets on both legs in the house and then over the weekend installed the XTB-IIR at the breaker box. I am glad I did... While I had the power off at the breaker box I really took a good look at it and noticed that on one or two circuits the ground was attached to the neutral bar. Looking at the Ground bars I realized that open connecting spots where were running low. I took the time to add an additional grounding bar and fix the issue. I also noticed that 1 or 2 of the screws that lock the wires into the breakers were not tightened and that there was movement on the wire going into the breaker.
Everything is now tighten down, on filters, XTB-IIR installed, XTB-ANRs plugged in and everything is working like a charm. Thanks for the help and the info.