just wanted to give an update...
I have been very busy and haven't had too much time to spend doing all the playing around that i wanted to, but...
i added a transceiver module to AHP for all my house codes (that have a transceiver). That still didn't seem to make it 100% better, so i swapped out / moved around some modules. I am not saying that it's working properly, but everything did come on tonight like it's suppose to. I will have to see how the turning off part goes.
Over the last couple days, it seemed pretty inconsistent about what was or was not working. If it starts fouling up again, i wonder if it could be that I am using some older modules / transceivers. If i run into problems again, i will have to MAKE the time to try and figure it out.
Thanks again for all the responses, just sorry that I haven't been able to dedicate time to this and get back to you all quicker...