Good Evening,
The 802.11 is the wireless local area network developed by the IEEE LAN/MAN Standards Committee (IEEE 802) in the 5GHz public spectrum and was not designed for nor intended for remote control. Using it as a valid network with TCP/IP would work but that is a lot of overhead. The chips in volume would, the micro and other items would push $35 in total just for the chips. Please note I have not priced these parts but do see them in trade publications.
There are many other frequencies allocated for remote control and would be much more cost effective to implement. Good Idea though.
Have fun
Gil Shultz