Based on the macro you showed, I'm not sure why after 2 seconds just the lights went off, but here are a few things to be aware of:
84 6/28/2008 5:52:06 PM Macro A9 (Family Room)
85 6/28/2008 5:52:06 PM Macro A10 (Kitchen)
86 6/28/2008 5:52:06 PM Macro A Bright 100(Family Room, Kitchen)
Under Tools/Preferences/Macro Options you might want to select "Issue On in place of Bright 100%".
The idea here is that the Eagle Eye will continue to transmit A1 signals as long as it senses motion and 10 minutes after motion ceases everything will turn off.
As the macro stands now, it will continue to run multiple occurrences (once for every motion detection). Each will not end after 10 minutes of no motion but after 10 minutes of being started.
What you may want to do is create an EagleEye OFF macro that uses the end of motion delay from the motion sensor itself to turn the camera & lights off.
To prevent the macro from re-triggering multiple times, you will need a condition (such as a flag or module state), so it cannot be triggered more than once until after the OFF macro clears the condition.
Turn Video Commander OFF
I do not believe this is possible. The VCR Commander has a fixed time delay of 5 minutes; however, it is re-triggerable to extend the time longer. But keep in mind that if your macros are set to turn the cameras and lights off after 10 minutes of no motion, your VCR Commander would have turned off 5 minutes earlier.