Really good stuff, guys ... I'll be handing out "helpfuls" after I post this ... thanks very much.
The guy who wired my house put in a lot of circuits ... my 200A main panel has 42 available slots, 29 110V breakers and 5 220V (dryer, range, water heater, A/C, and shop sub-panel), so I have 2 empty slots on one side of my panel and 1 slot on the other.
As it happens, my son's in-laws are registered electricians, but they live 120 miles away and are VERY nice people so I hate to bother them ... but I'll bet I could get some tips. And I do have the book that I used to wire my shop in the last house, so I'll have to dig it up and see what it says about working in panels.
And I have a closet full of X10 stuff that I bought before I realized that it wasn't going to be as easy as I had hoped.
I haven't decided to pull the trigger yet, but I'm leaning ...
