Mal,
First and foremost, welcome to the forum. We were all newbies at one time.
Now that the pleasantries are over, I afraid that I will be raining on your parade.
Thermostats that can be interfaced to an automation system are typically:
A) 4 to 8 wire systems - you mentioned 2-wire, is this a Heat only application?
B) Expensive :
RCS X10 Thermostat C) Typically designed for use in a large Zoned system (controllable dampers control heating/cooling to different areas ).
D) Expensive (do I need to add a E?).
I'm sorry to dump more, but there isn't a home control technology that I know of that I would trust to "control" the furnace/AC in my home. Certain things I will only trust to dedicated, hardwired controllers. I do not want to come home in January to find a frost on the inside of the windows.
At this point I must ask what you are trying to achieve:
A) Fixing an existing hot/cold location in your home (within limits)?
B) Scheduling ease (easy programming of day/time schedules in a setback style thermostat)?
C) Energy savings
D) Temperature monitoring (not control)
There are methods for addressing the above. Please give us a better idea of your end goal.
Boiler
Hi: So as a "Newbie" I'm asking the obvious question about if it is possible, and the best way, to control the thermostat?
Seems an obvious thing for home automation, and I don;t mind buying a new thermostat - but which one for a 2-wire system.
By the way, I wouldn't mind an device that could transmit the temperature in each room, at least that way I might find out if things are not working properly.
Best regards to all, and thanks for reading my first, "Newbie", efforts
Good night. Mal.