Actually, support for the SoftStart modules was introduced in 3.302. Since you said you have 3.305, you should already have SoftStart support. However, they should still respond to the older "on" and "off" commands.
Moving the CM15A to an outlet near the wall switch may not help if the light and the outlet are on different phases. If you can, try an outlet on the same phase as the light switch. OR, you can put the CM15A and the lamp module on the same outlet, and see if you can control it that way.
If you have a TM751 and a handheld remote, you can test to see if the switch responds to any commands.
If you turn the switch on manually, can you turn if off with AHP?
What type of bulbs are you using in that fixture?
If nothing changed in your home besides the new PC, then the power supply in the new PC might be putting out a lot of noise, you may need to filter that.
Have you tried a full reset of the CM15A? Unplug it from the wall, unplug the USB cable, and remove the batteries for a few mew minutes. Then put it all back together and try it again.