Well top of the morning gentleman,
I followed HA Dave advice, and did everything at breaker box, plus uninstalled TV's and anything in a plug, and turned of all lights in house, my daughter and I then with App in hand and a light on a controller, walked around house testing out power lines. didnt matter what area of the house or room, with all breakers off except the router the wifi until still could not send a code, I have exhausted every avenue that i possibly could take with the VM100
It will be going back in the mail with the other one. for a full refund.
To bad I had high hopes, maybe in the next integration on the next unit in 5 years. lol
thanks again