Sorry for the confusion.
My ISP is Cox Communication (Mid south texas, oklahoma etc..)
using xp pro sp2
tried with both xp firewall on and off
currently using a trendnet router..but also have a spare linksys that i plugged in and tried.. tried port forwarding to my pc.. also tried putting my pc on the dmz
as i stated earlier. myhouse worked for about a month.. back in feb i was able to go to work and connect all the time.
then just one day nothing.
1: Which ports does Cox currently block or filter? Cox presently blocks Port 25 (both directions except for access to Cox HSI provided mail servers), port 80 (inbound), port 135 (both directions), Ports 136-139 (both directions), Port 445 (both directions), Port 1433 (inbound), Port 1434 (inbound), Port 1900 (both directions) and Port 27374 (both directions). Information on blocked ports is kept updated on support.cox.com.
is there not another way to use a different port for myhouse instead of 80.. i can open up just about any port except for the one's listed above.