Thanks to both of you. The building is about 100' away. The actual wiring is probaly +- about 50 ft. more in length. They are both on the same service. The house has the meter main and a couple of subpanels are located in the barn and one other garage? 120/240 single phase 3 wire service.
If the barn lighting circuit is not on the same phase, he'll move it to the other leg.
My dad, brother and I are electricians. It is interesting that neither of us have have come across x10 yet. I'm not sure why but I know that it was one more technology that I didn't have time to fully learn. We do Traffic Signal Construction so we are versed in a lot of trades. (Directional Boring, Concrete, the wiring , Video detection) and for hobbies: cars, car electronics(emissions), LEDs, Ademco alarm stuff and internet stuff. While never boring , it gets kind of overwhelming and time consuming to indulge all of it.