My two cents worth.. I am a successful baby monitor BVC user. I had originally looked at Dave's videos to help with setup but missed one important fact. I spliced a mono plug on the receiving baby monitor plug instead of a stereo plug (mono has one black stripe around plug, stereo has 2 bands). Dave and Knightrider helped track this one down in the Home Automation Chat Room. Thanks guys.
Once I changed this, I had to reset my audio levels as I was getting way too much input with the mono settings.
I have my baby monitor in the same room as my TV with the HA computer about 45 feet away. BVC will accept commands from the far end of the house if I raise my voice.
Recently, I bought a new laptop and was going to set up my old laptop running Windows Vista to be my HA PC. I finally got it to work fairly well but not as good as the PC running Windows XP. It looks to me like Vista's speech recognition tries to do battle with BVC and sometimes wins. If I check the screen it has opened notepad started to write a message. Hopefully, it didn't inadvertently email someone a nastygram.
I won't say my system doesn't occasionally misfire but, as a rule, I seldom use a remote. When it's working right, you really do feel like you are the master of your domain!